“The Entice Me Sexy Soirée parties are so fun! They have a way of making “Sex Talk” easy and natural. I was surprised as to how comfortable I felt. They have a wealth of knowledge about sexual pleasure and health. If you are looking to educate yourself, improve your sex life, or just get some toys… Entice Me Sexy Soirées are your source!”  Dawnmarie Presley, C. Ht.

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Entice Me Sexy Soirées are upscale sex toy parties. Our Soirées are a great time to get together with your friends and have some fun while learning about sex, pleasure, and products.


A thoroughly sexually educated Independent Entice Me Sexinista (a special Ambassador/ Consultant) will lead the event so that everyone in the party feels comfortable participating in a frank and fun discussion about sex, a subject that is often shameful or even considered taboo. Meet the Sexinistas.

A Sexy Soireé is a perfect way to open up a sexy conversation about all the things we wish we would have been taught about. Our customers share that their friends want to learn more about sex, have a lot of questions, and often are overwhelmed when exploring sex toys. Many women feel they are alone when it comes to issues in the bedroom and with their bodies.  

We customize the Soirée for you and your guests, to best fit your needs. We have something for everyone, from mild to wild. We don’t limit the fun to women only. Our Soirées are open to people of all genders and sexual orientations, it is up to you. Couples Soireés are a wonderful way to connect and learn about your mate in a sexy new way.  Read More…

—>Just  pick the date and time of day for your Soirée, and we do the rest. In fact, many of our moms and medical offices prefer a “lunch and learn” event, mid-day. Our FUNdraiser events are a spicy way to raise money for your favorite organization while getting sexucated on all the newest and best sex toys on the market.

We require a small deposit*  to secure your date. The deposit will be refunded towards product purchase when the Soirée reaches a minimum sales level. You may cancel or reschedule up to 2 weeks in advance. 

When you host an Entice Me Soirée, you get together with your friends, learn about the pleasures of sex, and earn rewards! Your Hostess Rewards include credit towards FREE products and 50% off items, based on sales and new event bookings. As a special treat, our Hostesses also receive a 10% discount for life.

We currently have Sexinistas available to do your Sexy Soirées in Southern California, Seattle, Washington, and Aruba. We also offer Virtual Soirées/Sex Toy Parties anywhere Skype/FaceTime/zoom. We are happy to travel to any destination (additional costs may apply.) <—

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The classic Sexy Soirée is our version of a sex toy party that combines fun and education, in a discreet environment.

Upscale and sassy, our Sexy Soirée provides tips and tricks that you never knew about your body, pleasure, and sex life while demonstrating our most popular products.

There are a wide variety of devices shown, to use alone or with a partner.     

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Parties/Bridal Showers – Classy and Sassy for a more sophisticated evening of fun. Start the marriage off the sexy way… and share let your friends and family learn new things too!


Entice Me Workshops

Our Workshops delve deeper into a topic of choice. At the Workshop, a Sexinista provides training, in a professional workshop format. Like everything from Entice Me, they are done in a very tasteful, tactful manner. We do not do live sex shows or partake in nudity of any kind. Some favorite workshops include Orally Speaking, Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down, Exploring Orgasms and so many more..


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She is the founder and Chief Sexinista™ of Entice Me®. She began Entice Me to open up the conversation about sex and pleasure.


To know that Entice Me is here to listen, help, coach and bring life back to all women is also my cause and my purpose. I am so proud to be a Sexinista!


Sex should never be boring, change something, mix it up, try something new, be naughty and be sure you have a lot of fun. That is my wish for you!

Ruby Rider 

Hi, some of you may know me by my nom de plume, Ruby Ryder. I am a Sexinista for Entice Me. I serve Santa Barbara, Ventura Counties, as well as surrounding areas.


I’m Avril and I believe in the high-quality products that Entice Me has curated for all those who are, and those who want to be healthy, sexually active individuals.

Ruby Doll

Seattle Area Sexinista, Ruby Doll


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