Slip and Slide….Lube Makes Everything Better!

Which Lubricant is Best for You?   There are a variety of lubricants on the market, ranging from drug-store brands to chic, women-friendly packaging. There is now even a prescription product that boasts to help women through the menopausal transition, however, not without a bevy of health warnings. So what are you really using lube for, how does it […]

The Desire Trifecta, Part 2: Physical

For fiery desire, it usually isn’t a lack of just one element. In this 2nd installment of the Desire Trifecta, I delve into the physical aspects of desire. For PHYSICAL, there are muscles that can improve desire. You have probably heard of Kegels. And Kegels aren’t just for women. Engaging your pelvic floor muscles brings […]

For Your Listening Enjoyment- Recent Podcasts

Each month my goal is to be a podcast guest on at least one podcast. While everyone encourages me to do my own podcast, that seems daunting to me. Most people don’t know this but I am an introvert. Not that that has much to do with having a podcast I guess, but I do […]

Benefits of Masturbation May

If you know me at all, I preach pleasure and orgasm benefits all the time. I am a walk my talk kinda gal, but sometimes my pleasure interludes aren’t as frequent as I would like. (And please don’t hit me up volunteering to assist me, I’m good.) I get busy like everyone else. This month […]

EXPLORING THE LANDSCAPE OF MALE ORGASMS: INSIGHTS INTO FREQUENCY, PERCEPTION, AND HEALTH

From Volante KATY THORN·FEBRUARY 21, 2023 6 MINS READ Understanding the dynamics of male orgasms is crucial in the realm of sexual health research. Orgasms are not only a vital aspect of sexual satisfaction but also contribute significantly to psychological and relational well-being. This article delves into the intricate statistics surrounding male orgasms, exploring how […]

7 Surprising Benefits of Self-Pleasure

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May is International Masturbation Month as well as Mental Health Awareness Month, a great opportunity to make time for yourself, get to know your body, and prioritize your sexual pleasure. 💋 Masturbation is self-care. Despite its numerous benefits, masturbation is still perceived as a “dirty” act to many people, especially individuals with conservative beliefs. In […]

The Desire Trifecta, Part 1: Mental

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Desire… we expect it to just be there and then one day, it isn’t. It can be coaxed out again, and it is helpful to know how to get there.  When I work with my clients, they are often surprised to learn that waning desire typically isn’t the result of one single thing. Instead it […]

A BJ for Your V-Day- Sexy Secrets For Your Valentine’s Whisper

The key to a sexy Valentines Day is a pleasurable blow job for the receiver and the GIVER. It’s no secret, men love blow jobs. One of the most common complaints I hear from men is that after they enter into a long term relationship or marriage, blow jobs become few and far between. What […]

Creating a Fake Commute for Self-Care

9 or 10 months into our work from home world, we have learned that we are resilient. Life changes and so do we.  While I have worked from home or wherever I lay my head for the past 10 years, that didn’t mean I didn’t drive… A LOT. I live in Southern California. Until it […]

Stay Safe With These Sex Toy Shopping Secrets

The pandemic has shown us that it is simpler and easier to shop online for most items. This is especially true when shopping for your sex toys. When shopping at www.enticeme.com this process is private and discreet, from the comfort of your own home. Plus, you avoid contact with others and from running into someone […]