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Sexual Misconception #1: A Few Minutes of Kissing and Groping is Plenty of Foreplay. 

Quickies can be awesome but slowing down allows sex to be mindful, increasing pleasure and connection with a partner. This allows for exploration and increased arousal. We often touch each…

A BJ for Your V-Day- Sexy Secrets For Your Valentine’s Whisper

The key to a sexy Valentines Day is a pleasurable blow job for the receiver and the GIVER. It’s no secret, men love blow jobs. One of the most common…

Creating a Fake Commute for Self-Care

9 or 10 months into our work from home world, we have learned that we are resilient. Life changes and so do we.  While I have worked from home or…

How to Get Your New Years Kiss and Then What to Do Next

This might be the most anticipated New Year’s Eve since Y2K. The world is looking forward to a calmer 2021 for sure. Eminently there are no parties and festivities like…

Trade Wars, Tariffs, and Toys

More than 2/3 of consumer goods imported from China have experienced increased tariffs in the past few months. There are more expected increases to be added on Dec. 15, 2019.…

The Importance of Testosterone in Women

Many women come to me with complaints of lack of desire. No desire to have sex. After all, 52% of women prefer chocolate to sex. This can cause a myriad…

Life’s Lubricant-Stress and the Sex Connection

When sex is going well, everything else in life is smoother. I talk a lot about sex and orgasms. I love sex, it is transcending. But more, I love what…

A Big Box of Dildos

One of the most frequently asked questions that we get is, “How will my order be packaged?”  I am here to assure you that discretion is a top shipping priority…

The Condom Cop-out

I keep hearing from both men I meet and my girlfriends, that men complain about condoms. A common gripe is that guys can’t stay hard wearing one. I am obviously…

Losing Weight is No Longer My New Years Resolution

Casual Sex Ended My Dieting Fixation Obtaining a certain size or weight was my New Years Resolution for a large part of my life. Thinking back, my body fixation started…