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Sexual Misconception #1: A Few Minutes of Kissing and Groping is Plenty of Foreplay. 

Quickies can be awesome but slowing down allows sex to be mindful, increasing pleasure and connection with a partner. This allows for exploration and increased arousal. We often touch each…

A BJ for Your V-Day- Sexy Secrets For Your Valentine’s Whisper

The key to a sexy Valentines Day is a pleasurable blow job for the receiver and the GIVER. It’s no secret, men love blow jobs. One of the most common…

Life’s Lubricant-Stress and the Sex Connection

When sex is going well, everything else in life is smoother. I talk a lot about sex and orgasms. I love sex, it is transcending. But more, I love what…

The Condom Cop-out

I keep hearing from both men I meet and my girlfriends, that men complain about condoms. A common gripe is that guys can’t stay hard wearing one. I am obviously…

Losing Weight is No Longer My New Years Resolution

Casual Sex Ended My Dieting Fixation Obtaining a certain size or weight was my New Years Resolution for a large part of my life. Thinking back, my body fixation started…

Consent for Women Outside of the Bedroom

When I first read this article on Vox about consent violations in the blockbuster movie A Star is Born, I thought it was interesting. I personally had not thought of…

Intimacy, Struggles, and Passion- An Interview with Artist Veronica Blanco

Art That Tells a Story I was recently introduced to the sensual art of Veronica Blanco of Toronto, Canada. I love featuring other women in business and the adult industry.…

Kissing, Casual Sex, and Intimacy

What do you avoid when you are trying to keep your heart out of sex? I have heard that teens give blow jobs as the new “good night kiss” and…

Staying In Your Sexless Marriage Is Not Benefiting Your Kids

I often speak to people in a sexless marriage. A sexless marriage is one which sex happens once a month or less. Both men and women tell me they can’t…

Welcome Back, Sex!

I usually have a few lovers laying around. Or more like around somewhere, when we can get to each other (it is LA, after all and nothing is close). We…