7 Surprising Benefits of Self-Pleasure
May is International Masturbation Month as well as Mental Health Awareness Month, a great opportunity to make time for yourself, get to know your body, and prioritize your sexual pleasure. 💋 Masturbation is self-care. Despite its numerous benefits, masturbation is still perceived as a “dirty” act to many people, especially individuals with conservative beliefs. In […]
The Desire Trifecta, Part 1: Mental
Desire… we expect it to just be there and then one day, it isn’t. It can be coaxed out again, and it is helpful to know how to get there. When I work with my clients, they are often surprised to learn that waning desire typically isn’t the result of one single thing. Instead it […]
Sexual Misconception #1: A Few Minutes of Kissing and Groping is Plenty of Foreplay.
Quickies can be awesome but slowing down allows sex to be mindful, increasing pleasure and connection with a partner. This allows for exploration and increased arousal. We often touch each other and forget to feel because we have so much going on in life. This isn’t only for women. Men get in the habit of […]
A BJ for Your V-Day- Sexy Secrets For Your Valentine’s Whisper
The key to a sexy Valentines Day is a pleasurable blow job for the receiver and the GIVER. It’s no secret, men love blow jobs. One of the most common complaints I hear from men is that after they enter into a long term relationship or marriage, blow jobs become few and far between. What […]
Creating a Fake Commute for Self-Care
9 or 10 months into our work from home world, we have learned that we are resilient. Life changes and so do we. While I have worked from home or wherever I lay my head for the past 10 years, that didn’t mean I didn’t drive… A LOT. I live in Southern California. Until it […]
How to Get Your New Years Kiss and Then What to Do Next
This might be the most anticipated New Year’s Eve since Y2K. The world is looking forward to a calmer 2021 for sure. Eminently there are no parties and festivities like normal, because nothing about 2020 has been normal. But that doesn’t have to not include a New Year’s Kiss. So what about that New Year’s […]
Trade Wars, Tariffs, and Toys
The Importance of Testosterone in Women
Life’s Lubricant-Stress and the Sex Connection
A Big Box of Dildos
The Condom Cop-out
I keep hearing from both men I meet and my girlfriends, that men complain about condoms. A common gripe is that guys can’t stay hard wearing one. I am obviously not a man and don’t know what it feels like, but to me, that sounds like a mental block. I would think a baby or […]
Losing Weight is No Longer My New Years Resolution
Casual Sex Ended My Dieting Fixation Obtaining a certain size or weight was my New Years Resolution for a large part of my life. Thinking back, my body fixation started after my parents went through a divorce, when I was 6. My dad said he was leaving because my mom had gained weight and didn’t […]